Episode
In this episode, The Thoughtful Counselor welcomes Dr. Vanessa Carlisle to discuss her newest co-authored work, Awaken Your Sexuality: A Guide to Connection and Intimacy after Addiction and Trauma. Vanessa and contributing host Dr. Theo Burnes discuss the unique barriers for women and nonbinary people in recovery as they examine their sexualities. Topics addressed include tips and strategies for counselors working with people in recovery about their desires and sexual pleasure. Drs. Carlisle and Burnes also speak about the writing and publication process for authors interested in mental health topics.
Guest
Vanessa Carlisle, PhD (they/them) is an author, coach, and educator dedicated to liberatory practice through the intersections of sexuality, safety building, and death care. As a sexuality educator and a longtime sex worker, Vanessa draws on both evidence-based practices and community wisdoms in their work. Vanessa co-authored Awaken Your Sexuality: A Guide to Connection and Intimacy After Addiction and Trauma (and workbook!) with Dr. Stephanie Covington, and is the author of the award-winning novel Take Me With You (Running Wild Press).
Resources
2. Workbook Link: https://stephaniecovington.com/books/bookstore/awaken-your-sexuality-a-guide-to-connection-and-intimacy-after-addiction-and-trauma/
3. Training Link: https://stephaniecovington.com/training/integrating-sexuality-into-recovery-virtual-training-february-2026/
4. Working wth Nonbinary People: https://transequality.org/issues/resources/understanding-nonbinary-people-how-to-be-respectful-and-supportive
5. Dr. Vanessa Carlisle: www.vanessacarlisle.com
